In today's era of advanced communication technology, the connection between people should have become closer; however, I have been a private investigator for many years, and I have received many commissions to investigate the whereabouts of my partner. Would you hire a Private Investigator to catch ??From these cases, I learned about the emotional world of many people, and I have seen many separations, which really made me feel a lot. This time I want to share a case with you.
There was a woman in her 40s who came to me crying and said her husband was cheating, because her husband stopped work at 6 o'clock every night, he would not go home immediately, but only said that he wanted to stay in the company to work overtime. The wife is restless at home and often "calls her to death", but the husband just insisted that he was working overtime or not even answering the phone, so he had to entrust us to investigate his whereabouts.
During our investigation, it was discovered that her husband was not out and about. It turns out that after work every night, he just hangs out on the street alone, such as going to the game center, walking the street, eating, watching movies, etc., to pass the time through some cheap activities; even if he already shows a tired look (In fact, we were very tired of tracking), still hanging out late at night before returning home. Since there was no sign of an affair, it was confirmed that the lady had misunderstood her husband.
While this isn't a bad outcome, what is it that causes their relationship to be so cold that the husband would rather hang out on the street than go home? There may be some reasons that make him feel unhappy staying at home, and he does not dare to tell the other half of his unhappiness, or think that speaking out will not solve the problem.
A husband and wife relationship that does not quarrel is not necessarily a good relationship. If you blindly avoid problems, you will not be able to communicate. In order to understand each other, you must express your true feelings frankly, and you must also trust that the other party will listen to you.